7 Tips for How To Survive Traveling Solo over the Holidays
7 Tips for How To Survive Traveling Solo over the Holidays
I’ve done my fair share of solo travel, but my first time traveling alone over the holidays was last year to Peru. I remember being both excited and apprehensive to stretch my comfort zone even further than ever before. And while I ended up leaving Peru with both fun memories and new learnings, I can definitely say that my solo Christmas experience that year was full of magical travel moments.
If you’re thinking about taking a trip alone this winter, here are my 7 Tips For How To Survive Traveling Solo Over the Holidays so that you too can have a magical experience:
traveling solo over the holidays
To Call Home or Not To Call Home
Calling home or deciding to travel “off-the-grid” during the holidays is a bit of a personal decision, but definitely important to consider before choosing your travel destination.
Will you be happier being able to text or Facetime family and friends while you’re celebrating abroad? Or will doing so give you a sense of “missing out” that takes you out of the present moment?
I spent Christmas Eve in Peru’s capital, Lima, where I could FaceTime my family as much I wanted. But in those moments of talking with my mom or my sisters, I felt a bit melancholy in seeing the fun they were having so far away.
Next time I travel alone during the holidays, I know I’d need a Christmas destination that’s a bit more off-the-grid so that I can more fully immerse myself in the journey and not be reminded about all the “what if’s” and happenings back home.
traveling solo over the holidays
Research Destinations with Lots Going On
Many restaurants, stores, historic sights and tour operators shut down for Christmas each year, sometimes remaining closed even until New Year’s Eve. So unless you’re looking to spend few cozy days bundled up inside your accommodation, choose your trip location(s) wisely!
Countries with populations whose primary religion is something other than Christianity is always a good place to start since they typically have more businesses open. However, if your goal is to visit somewhere with a larger Christmas or Holiday celebration, a destination like Vatican City, Berlin or Edinburgh are all great options.
Secret Tip
If you’re itching to visit a remote destination over the holidays – one without lots of people – consider somewhere that has lots of sporty outdoor activities that will keep your body and mind busy!
traveling solo over the holidays
Participate in a Local Holiday Celebration
Part of the magic of traveling abroad is participating in local customs and cultures that you might not experience at home.
So instead of observing the holidays exactly like you normally would at home, I invite you to go immerse yourself in the German Christmas Markets, sample some Peruvian Pannetone or participate in Mexico’s Las Posadas. Wherever you are in the world, I can almost guarantee that by doing this you can have a magical – holiday – travel moment.
traveling solo over the holidays
Treat Yourself to a Christmas or Hanukkah Present
Be kind to and treat yourself during your trip – traveling solo is hard, especially during this time of year.
For me, this meant splurging on a cream hand-woven alpaca scarf and a few other trinkets made by the amazing women at El Centro De Textiles Tradicionales Del Cusco in Chinchero, Peru.
So, consider treating yourself to that massage after a long flight or buying that second helping of gelato after a long day of sightseeing. Whatever it is, give yourself some grace this holiday season. By treating yourself, no matter how big or small, you will make your trip all the more special.
traveling solo over the holidays
Make A New Holiday or Travel Tradition
Growing-up, my family’s Christmas traditions were decorating the tree, watching loads of movies and cooking a traditional Polish Christmas Eve dinner.
Knowing I wouldn’t be able to experience those while in Peru, I made myself a new tradition: discovering and buying local art to enjoy at home. I would look for a piece that I’d be proud to hang in my living room and that would always remind me of my adventures.
Having this new tradition begin during the holidays made it even more significant. And in doing so, I wasn’t then comparing my experience that year to any Christmases that I’d had before. New art and a fun holiday escape – without any FOMO? Win/win.
Secret Tip
If you’re stumped figuring out what your new holiday tradition should be, remember that it can at least be as big or small, as goofy or sentimental as you’d like. And even if you can’t find the perfect “one”, remember you can always try a few on for size during your travels and see what develops from there.
traveling solo over the holidays
Boost Your Adrenaline
If there’s one takeaway to remember from Legally Blonde, it’s that “Exercise gives you endorphins. Endorphins make you happy”.
And while I’m not necessarily saying you have to exercise on your trip, boosting adrenaline is a greatway to keep your spirits up if you’re already worried about being solo over the holidays.
While in Peru, I went paragliding on Christmas Eve. It was a blast! In fact, it was so thrilling that it was more than easy for me to sleep-in the next morning during Christmas, when the city would be a bit slower than normal. My joy and entertainment from a rousing and fast-paced activity followed by the need for a slow and easy morning had me completely forget that I was even alone on Christmas at all.
Alternatively…
If you’re unable to tackle a more physical or adrenaline-boosting activity, consider a local walking tour – especially a food tour, if available! Anything that will keep you moving and seeing different sights or places around town.
traveling solo over the holidays
Treat Yourself to a Special Holiday Dinner
When I realized I’d be missing my family’s annual Polish Christmas Eve dinner, I knew I’d be upset if I didn’t at least treat myself to my own feast abroad. And while I wouldn’t be able to dine on traditional Polish food, I made it a point to have a large local dinner.
I ate more ceviche, chaufa and lomo saltado than I had throughout my entire trip thus far – a true Peruvian feast! And don’t even get me started on the pisco sour and wine, which I drank from the safety of my hotel – a must do when indulging on a solo vacation.
Spoiling myself with foods I knew I couldn’t replicate at home, or at least, couldn’t get as easily upped the allure and magic of it being Christmas Eve. I suddenly found myself being more fully present with my current surroundings that night, rather than wondering what everyone else might up to half a world away. And as cheesy as it sounds, I wasn’t just surviving the holiday anymore, but thriving on my solo adventure.